"Pay me a compliment, Melvin. I need one, quick... and MEAN IT!" That's Helen Hunt speaking to Jack Nicholson in "As Good As It Gets." They're at a restaurant when he casually insults her dress and she stands to leave, then pauses to demand offsetting praise. And lastly when he comes through with the fabulous line that changes her attitude and both their lives. Remember it? "You make me want to be a better man."
Well,If you think you can impress your girl just by buying her gifts on her birthday or sending her roses on Valentine’s Day, think again! It really isn’t all that simple! Everything said and done, it is the art of showering compliments that actually does the trick for almost all girls. If you are determined on saying nice things to her, say it like you mean it! Genuine and sweet words of praise stay forever. It is possible that she has worn something special just for you and the least she can expect are compliments. On the other hand, it is suggested that you should not overuse compliments as you might begin to start faking it and once that happens, it is probably a lost opportunity to tell her how you feel.
Giving Compliments To A Girl
Complimenting a girl on her looks is a sure-shot way of impressing her. It is in the nature of every woman to beautify herself in order to be noticed. When someone appreciates this effort, her heart skips a beat! When you compliment her on her looks, ensure that you mean every word you say.
Smart, Kind And Compassionate Words such as smart, kind and compassionate immediately draw the attention of a pretty girl. These can be aimed at women who are experts in balancing their work and personal lives. Kindness and compassion are inbuilt qualities that reflect on the heart of the woman. Your compliments for these efforts and characteristics are sure to boost her self-confidence and energy levels. To sound more truthful, point out instances when you think she’s been at her best. This is sure to make her day!
Smile Though this is probably one of the most common compliments, there’s nothing that a beautiful smile can’t fix! Telling a girl that she has a million dollar smile will instantly give her goose bumps. There are two ways to go about this. Either you can use poetic language such as “I see the moonlight when you smile like that” or you can simply say, “I love the way you smile”. You know what the best part is? She will actually smile every time she thinks of this compliment!
It takes so much time and effort for a girl to do up her hair. Her only desire being, some attention and compliments! So, to tell her that she’s done a good job will elevate her to cloud nine. Never make the mistake of lying as this can easily be spotted and she might end up blaming you for this disaster! ‘That’s a nice hairstyle you got there’. can give her confidence and a sense of looking beautiful too.
Just providing a woman with everything she needs, like giving her a shoulder to cry on and a friend to rely on, and being there when she needs you is inevitable in a relationship. But in order to carry things forward with energy and positivity, you need to add more value. The best way to do this is compliment her spontaneously for her efforts in every work she does. This will, indeed, drive her crazy and immediately give you brownie points! It is important to weigh your words according to the compliments and express them with the best suited vocabulary. Not flattery. Not contrived, overblown buttering-up. Just the facts, in a nice frame. Be careful as you are dealing with a tender heart!