Today modern relationship endures in the minds of every individuals, who believe in sovereignty. For them to be devoted to any one person is not obligatory. Any relationship that does not adhere to established morals cannot be portrayed as modern. Some think sex before marriage. Some think live in relationship is modern. Some think having children before marriage is modern. The domesticity of modern marriage is grounded on the facts of long-lived relationships and in no way preclude sex in long-lived relationships.
Love has vanished somewhere in the corner of the earth. In the other words, Love has been replaced with lust. Lust, it’s certainly an ugly word, which nobody wants to speak about it and more than that don’t want to think about it. The term invokes a sleazy feeling, something dark and alluring, yet wrong. The problem with the modern love is that it makes you feel so replaceable.
When a guy and a girl meet online, their conversations replaces their temptations to meet more physically rather than understanding the brainwaves of each other. There always been saying that love keeps two people together, but nowadays it’s lust, that keeps the relationship alive.
If the person is actually in love with someone, he or she for sure will share his or her dreams with their partners. They will indulge in sharing with each other about their dreams, fears, goals, past and future. They won’t even miss a chance to tell them their secrets that they have never told anyone before. When you’re in love, you go straight to the core. Not only are you sharing about more topics, but what you say about each topic is deeper, more personal in nature. These days, we barely get to perceive such a truthful and precise love.
Where love is lust, people don’t prefer to engage much with each other. They only peel away a few layers of their personalities. They will talk in limits, about their hobbies, movie or music preferences, and that’s all about. This is where our modern love has crooked on. People have smoothed themselves according to their preferences and beliefs.
Hence, having sex with someone is easy but being in love with someone is hard. You should be in a relationship with those who is madly in love with you and not with any person who just wants to play games with you.