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10 tips to be trusted friend of your teen kid

Sanjukta Sen | November, 06 2014

You think your son is obstinate or you may have considered your daughter is unnecessary stubborn. Here 10 small factors are mentioned which are common concern of all teens that most of them are tired that their parents do not understand enough their smallest demands even. Minding these 10 tips will surely keep you in good relation with your teen boy/girl which they could have never expressed before.
Honoring his/her privacy
Kids want their separate place. It may not be an entire room but always you can allow some place for her /him. It might be his/her study table or her closet. You must not scan those areas with your cleaning motives unless there is any solid reason to do so. 
Listening her/his viewpoint
Sometimes teens may have some solid points to tell their parents about any issue. Before start or advising him/her on some misbehave/unusual reaction, try to listen to their points first. In case you find them unreasonable or dumpy, try to realize his /her problems as well and then start reacting. You will surely gain his/her trust and that’s priceless.
Don’t intervene with his/her dating 
Dating at this teen-age is a common quandary. However you must remain conscious. Do not compel your son/daughter to sneak around. Instead, be open and candid so that they can come and ask you if there is any trouble.
Don’t create pressure on his/her study
Sometimes you may feel that he/she is not studious enough. Instead of focusing on her grades take a look how he/she is performing in her study. Ask if she/he needs any help. It is unwise on your part to be a grumbling parent unless you find him/her constantly missing her/his grades. 
Imposing taboo about sex
Sex and sexual acts are common interests of teens but they do not like to discuss with their parents either. You must not very nosy rather. It’s unwise to create pressure for his/her personal details. Instead it’s wise to share recent news with him/her. Sometimes setting third person example can crack the nut.
Be impartial
In case he/she has a sibling, try to understand his/her problem due to the younger one. Sometimes young sister /brother can really be disturbing especially at the time of her submitting project or preparing for exams. In these cases take a little initiative to control the young one; don’t leave all on the big brother/sister concept.
Don’t scream at your son/daughter
Unless you will be able to understand her points, it’s unwise to start grumbling. Before starting scolding you must enquire the reason, why he/she have acted otherwise. May be by being reasonable, or putting yourself in his/her shoe you will be able to understand his/her viewpoint. 
He/she is lying because of trouble
Sometimes your kid may start avoiding you because you behave bossy and without even giving him her slightest space to be naughty. Certainly you cannot promote in disciplinary acts but you can be reasonable for once a while. In case your child is giving a reason for his out of the way action before start screaming listen to his point as well.
Using his/her age to parents advantage
This makes a teen frustrated. Very often you start accusing him/her about the immature age, and he/she feels threatened for acting like grownups. It is always wise to teach kids to act sensibly but not by age. Once you start treating him/ her as grownup person, it will help you better.
Trust him/her unconditionally
Parents do suspect their kids’ acts for the betterment of their kids but it hurts them when they found that parents don’t trust them. It is always recommended that you should give your trust and they will surely give you back their loyalty. After all, kids also love their parents.

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